Our sexuality is a beautiful, precious and valuable part of our being... so precious - that we should do everything we can to make choices that protect that part of ourselves with all diligence.
We were created sexual - It's a part of who we are... So having desires and curiosity, thoughts and emotions around our sexual-nature is a very natural part of our development as women. But I just want to open up this conversation by encouraging us to treat our sexuality with fragility. Opening up our sexuality unlocks a whole new world of vulnerability within us that doesn't just affect us physically - but impacts our entire being - mind, body, soul and spirit.
I have no doubt that I'm speaking to girls today who are sexually-active and others who perhaps aren't... And I've decided that The Secret Garden is a safe-place for you, regardless of your choices where there is no judgement - I am simply just someone who cares about your well-being and if I can equip you with "seed-for-thought" that has the potential to grow your life into something lovely, lush and healthy - then I will.
So my "seed-for-thought" today is simply to encourage you to dig deeper and think about the core-motivators of our sexual choices... and if those motivations are WORTH it?
Feeling Lonely? Curiosity? Being in Love? Needing affirmation? Wanting to be wanted? Craving the satisfaction? Feeling the HEAT? Seeking revenge?
Rebounding? Searching for acceptance? Playing the comparison game? Trying to get a promotion?
Desiring popularity? Gaining bragging rights? Getting older? Feeling the pressure?
Whatever it might be ... is it actually worth it? 🤔
Step outside of yourself and ask...
1. Big picture - is this REALLY what I want?
2. Am I making these choices for the RIGHT reasons?
Remember, there's absolutely NO JUDGEMENT from me... Let's just make sure we make choices (big or small) from a place of health, wisdom and wholeness that leads us to the LUSH life.
Love Laura xx